Do you know what we live for?

We live for the delicious taste
of a medium-rare steak,
for the sweet tang of wine,
for the laughter we experience
when we hear a good joke,
for a touch,
for a look,
for a beautiful sunrise
after a long night,
for all those moments
that take our breath away.

We live our whole lives
in the hope of having a few magical minutes...

I find in dark times, we need some good music, infinite supply of coffee/beer/wine/etc and a friend who you can rely to bother him/her at the oddest hours of the day, calling frequently to share the immediately impulsive, stupidest things in your mind that are incredibly trivial to the person you are sharing them with, but insanely important to you at that moment. You also need a comfy bed since you will be spending quite a bit of time there, preferably a laptop to research sappy songs, stalk your ex, read love articles, blogs, writing atrocities on facebook, stalking your ex some more and enjoying some movies. This process does not have a defined time limit, it depends on the person on how long it will last and it also depends on the person on the order of how things will get done during the process.

At the end of this journey, the person needs to finish with a long shower to take away the grime of procrastination/self-deprecation/hibernation and end up with getting dressed nicely and going out for a drink with friends.

The process might be a recurred theme for some, but it will disappear once the hangover of failed relationship is gone or when new romance is in sight.

For those with different steps in the process of getting over someone, please notify me of some interesting/weird/funny/crazy ones. Am all ears for anything new....

Happy 2010!

Dear inexistent readers,

I want to wish all of you Happy New Year. May this be the beginning of new beautiful endeavors, challenges and journeys to achieving your dreams and your happiness.

May you all also be spared my new year's eve, a day of total ignoring from my bf who is now my ex-bf. May you all have someone to kiss at the moment the clock strikes 12, may you all be partying instead of working and may you all have wonderful friends to celebrate the bitterness of life and make it all better, just like I did.

I am heartbroken at the moment, but strangely comforted by the hope of new beginnings. I find that this was a very auspicious incident and that it is all for the best. I promise to write more frequently and you must forgive my absence lately, due to heavy partying.

I wish you all the best and may we all feel better this year than last...